Alicia O’Brien Eppler, a longtime New Canaan resident, passed away on April 23, 2026 after a lengthy battle with cancer.
This tribute honors a life defined by family, service, and a love for sports and the outdoors.
It offers architectural and engineering readers a look at how she shaped and was shaped by her community—from local churches and schools to recreation spaces.
A life rooted in New Canaan: family, education, and career
Alicia was born in Norwalk on June 29, 1962, the youngest of three daughters.
She grew up deeply connected to New Canaan.
She graduated from New Canaan High School in 1980 and earned an Economics degree from St. Lawrence University in 1984.
This education prepared her for a dynamic, client-focused career in finance.
In her twenties, Alicia worked in New York City for Chemical Bank, ABN Amro, and Tiffany & Co.
These roles showed her ability to handle complex environments with grace.
On October 27, 1990, she married Ed Eppler.
The couple settled in New Canaan, where Alicia balanced her career with a rich family life.
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A devoted mother, Alicia supported her children in school, sports, and the arts.
She brought the same energy to parenting that she used in her professional life.
She is survived by her husband Ed; children Cassie (Alex Giammarco) of New Canaan, Bea (Nick Bartlett) of Darien, and Preston Eppler of London; her mother Barbara; and sisters Kathleen McGoldrick and Stephanie Smith.
Her extended family and friends remember her warmth and ability to turn ordinary moments into opportunities for connection.
A steadfast contributor to community and youth
Alicia’s impact reached beyond her immediate family.
She embraced community life with enthusiasm and practical generosity.
Her grandchildren called her “She-She”, reflecting her spirit of warmth and inclusivity.
Her commitment to service showed in her volunteer roles and leadership.
- Girl Scout troop leader
- CCD teacher
- Youth lacrosse coach
Alicia valued well-organized programs that help children and families thrive.
She brought people together and left a lasting imprint on the community.
A passion for sport and the outdoors
Alicia was a lifelong athlete who excelled in tennis, paddle, and golf.
She also enjoyed hiking, biking, and cross-country skiing.
The family’s second home in Steamboat Springs, Colorado, gave her a place to enjoy outdoor activities.
This reinforced her belief in the restorative power of nature.
Her love of movement influenced her view of community spaces—how courts, trails, and fields connect people and support health.
Her athletic pursuits taught resilience, teamwork, and joy in daily life.
Memorial details and honoring Alicia’s legacy
A memorial service will be held at St. Aloysius Church on April 30 at 10:30 a.m.
A reception will follow at Woodway Country Club.
Donations in Alicia’s memory may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering or Dana-Farber to support cancer research and patient care.
The built environment as a backdrop for family life
Alicia’s story highlights how the places we design—churches, schools, youth facilities, and recreational venues—shape community life.
Well-used spaces can foster belonging, encourage participation, and support families through all moments.
Thoughtfully planned memorials and community amenities become lasting legacies that honor individuals like Alicia and serve future generations.
Remembering Alicia through service and space
As we reflect on Alicia’s contributions, her example invites design professionals to consider how to support families facing illness and loss.
By prioritizing flexible programming and accessible facilities, we can help ensure that spaces remain welcoming and resilient.
Focusing on the soft infrastructure of community life also brings people together, just as Alicia did throughout her life.
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